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How to Approach a Nuru Massage if You Are Shy

Nuru Massage is one of the hottest forms of adult massage available. It is a truly unique and sexy experience that everyone should try at least once in their life. It truly is something that you need to experience to fully understand, but its popularity speaks for itself. Some people might be overwhelmed by the variety available and all of the terminology. It’s important to feel like you know what you’re talking about before booking a Nuru Massage. This article explains what a Nuru Massage is, why you might want one, and how to approach a Nuru Massage if you are shy.

Firstly let’s examine what a Nuru Massage is. Simply put, a Nuru Massage is a full contact body to body massage that is lubricated with a special Nuru gel. This gel is odourless, colourless, flavourless, and good for your skin. It is made from a sea vegetable known as brown  sea kelp.  This incredible marine plant is the same kelp that is made into nori and wraps around your sushi. It is healthy for you on the inside and outside because it is filled with antioxidants and other nutrients for the skin. When applied topically for a Nuru Massage, Nuru gel softens the skin, reduces friction, and leaves both people feeling supple and moisturised. A Nuru Massage is like a sexy spa day, you will leave feeling satisfied as well as completely pampered and your skin will feel incredible.

Reasons you might be shy about a Nuru Massage

Some people are outgoing, and some people are shy. This is just how the world works. For people who are outgoing, social situations are often simpler and less stressful than their shy counterparts. Sometimes, but not always, shyness can be a symptom of insecurity or low self-esteem.  If you are thinking about how to approach a Nuru Massage if you’re shy, the simplest answer is you just have to try it. However, there are some things to think about that may help you get over the hump and screw up the courage to give us a call and book your session.

There’s no need to feel insecure

If you are new to the world of erotic massage, it’s important to remember that there are no requirements to receive a Nuru Massage. You don’t have to be fit, or tall, or flexible. We do ask that our clients  discuss and disclose any chronic ailments they might have.  This is especially true for conditions regarding circulation, the heart, or skin conditions.  We are more than happy to accommodate clients who have disabilities or other issues that might make them shy about receiving a Nuru Massage. Remember, this is a transactional, no strings attached event. So even if you do struggle through, you may never see this woman again.

But she’s out of my league

Sometimes because our masseuses are so beautiful, our clients are intimidated by them. Luckily, you are not trying to date her, you are simply receiving a massage from her. Many of our masseuses are ex-models or continue to model on the side.  If you worry about being so intimate with a woman who is out of your league  you needn’t think of it that way. She certainly doesn’t. While your masseuse cares about you, she doesn’t care about how you look, or if you’ve put on a few extra “Covid Kilos”.  There’s no need to be shy about your body or to hold back from what feels good or what you desire, simply because you feel vulnerable. we recommend that you lean into that vulnerability and let her do what she does best.

Plan and strategize

If you are wondering how to approach a Nuru Massage if you’re shy, doing research and being well-informed can help. Sometimes shyness is related to feeling out of control or as if you can’t control what happens to you. A Nuru Massage itself requires the recipient to give over to the masseuse without controlling the session. If you’ve done some research and had all of your questions answered before your session, you will feel much more in control. When you’re armed with information, even if the plot changes or something comes up, you still have a wealth of knowledge to lean back on.

Practice if it makes you feel better

When we’re feeling shy, thinking about the situation is so much worse than going through with it. For many people the before the massage and after the massage portions of the session are the trickiest. Small things like introducing yourself and experiencing the potential awkwardness of being a professional masseuse can be a big roadblock.  It’s worth remembering that your masseuse does not need to be wowed or wooed. It can be tricky to let go of the instincts to be suave or fear rejection when intimacy is afoot. Fear not, your masseuse has no expectations beyond you being clean, polite, and willing to follow her lead through the session. If it helps, practice making small talk in the mirror or thinking ahead about questions you’d like to ask her or conversations you’d like to have.

Read our testimonials

On our website we have many client testimonials regarding the professionalism and sexiness of our masseuses. Our girls have hosted clients from all over the world, all walks of life, and all sorts of careers. They know how to relate to and entertain CEOs, royalty, celebrities, and a regular Joe.  It may seem as if the hardest part of a Nuru Massage would be the physicality, the amount of energy she expends for your pleasure. But many masseuses will tell you the most challenging part is helping clients open  Up. As with any activity, what you bring to your massage is exactly what you will get out of it. If you go in with a crummy attitude and defensive energy, you will struggle to relax. If you go in feeling confident and brave but a little unsure, you will no doubt turn to putty in her hands in no time.

The moral struggle is all in your head

Some people have a great desire to experience a Nuru Massage but they feel conflicted in terms of our morals and values.  For some, they worry about the treatment of the masseuses. We assure you that all of our masseuses are of legal age and work with us of their own free will. As a premium name in London’s erotic massage scene, we never have a hard time connecting with new masseuses who are eager to work with us. Each of our masseuses is an independent contractor and sets her own rates, hours, and her own limitations. We just help with advertising and scheduling.

There’s nothing wrong with paying for it

If there’s a niggling thought in your head of the morality of paying a professional for an intimate experience, that is worth exploring.  It doesn’t make you lame or pathetic or unable to get a woman if you choose to spend your precious time and hard-earned money with a professional. Because it is a no-strings-attached and transactional situation, you can enjoy the physicality, the conversation, the anticipation of flirtation, all without the bother of a relationship. Likewise if you’re in a relationship, is it really cheating if it’s self care? We’ll leave that question to be answered by you personally …

You don’t have to worry about privacy

The vast majority of our massage sessions are in-call, which means that you travel to your masseuse versus her coming to you. The primary reason we do things this way is safety. Having the masseuse in one place consistently and not vulnerable through travel helps us ensure that all is well. It’s also more efficient with less down time between appointments, so you’re more likely to see your favourite masseuse sooner. Another great thing about in-call massage, is that our masseuses work from their 5-star flats. There’s no glowing neon sign declaring to the world that you’re at a massage parlour, and there’s nothing dodgy about the locations you’ll go to.  Each of our masseuses lives in a high-end building in a posh postcode in London.  To any passersby you would simply look like someone visiting a friend. Your massage space will be private and your masseuse will be discreet in every way necessary.

Don’t let shyness hold you back

It can be challenging to know how to approach a Nuru Massage if you’re shy, but don’t let that stop you. If you’re interested in the super sexy slippery Japanese massage style, give us a call and we will set you up with one of our experts and we know you’ll have a great time. You must remember, a huge part of the job of an erotic masseuse is helping clients feel comfortable and empowered by their experience. Your masseuse wants you to have fun. She wants to see you smiling and enjoying yourself and reaping the benefits of Nuru Massage. But she can’t do that if you don’t give it a shot and you don’t open yourself up to enjoy the experience fully.  Don’t live your life on the sidelines, especially when it comes to exciting  and safe experiences like a professional Nuru Massage.

Help us help you

If you are a particularly shy or introverted client or you have trouble with communication in any way, let us know when you call in to book your session. If we know that you have some social nervousness around your session, we can help.  Some of our masseuses are a little bit shy themselves, whereas others are very outgoing. If we are aware that you’re shy or nervous, we can help pair you with a masseuse that is at the same sort of speed who will be less intense and intimidating. Likewise if you would prefer not to chat with your masseuse through the experience, just let us know.  we would like to help you be as comfortable as possible. If we can help in any way, let us know and we will do our best to accommodate or make recommendations to ease your worries.

What are you waiting for?

In a world where extroverts get priority and introverts are often overlooked, it can be hard to be shy. Unfortunately shyness begets shyness and it can become a vicious cycle of self-doubt and negative reinforcement. There are many experiences in activities that shy people naturally  avoid, which is unfortunate. A Nuru Massage does not necessarily seem like a conducive environment for shyness, but we have clients with all kinds of personalities. Some are loud and outgoing and laugh a lot, others are quiet and keep to themselves and hardly say a word to their masseuse. Some want to be drawn out of their shells and others are happy to keep a polite distance. 

Call us today

Whatever your style and whatever your needs, being shy is not a deal-breaker when it comes to erotic massage. Instead of giving up, put some thought into how to approach a Nuru Massage if you’re shy, and then make the call. We will answer all of your questions and help you through the process as much as we can but it’s up to you if you have any fun.


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